Why should I Conform...........

Isn't this what everyone wants? It sure is what I want...but if we aren't in debt we are a true American...oh please....I was raised if you can't pay cash you don't get it, but in doing so it has ruined any of chances of getting a House...Even though I have the cash..so who said money talks..maybe if your a star or live in hollywood..

I have waited and saved for over 20 years to one day achieve my dream home..but, to my surprise I don't have a paper that states I have credit ( meaning I owe everyone I pay them on time but,,,Im in debt)...I was shocked to realize that no history of credit is worse than bad credit...WOW......

So I am forced to not be myself but to join the ranks of most and become a credit card holder to enjoy and get what I have worked so hard all my life for...WOW...does this make sense? Im at a lost really I didn't know I had to conform and especially to owe money and be in debt to have a HOUSE.